Have you ever wonder who are your true friends? It is actually very easy. When you are going through a hard time or having heap load of problems, that is the best time for you to know who are your true friends.
I have been having a lot of problems recently and I had finally figure out what true friends and a 'friends' do to you to help you.
Take a minute to read and think back of who are your true friends and 'friends'
True friends
1) They stand by whenever you need help
2) They take the time and effort to comfort you
3) They will try to spend their time with you by going out with you
4) They listen to your problems and never once get annoyed at your problems
5) No matter how many times you complain to them, they never fail to talk you out of it
6) They try to do whatever they can to make you feel better
'Friends'
1) They will comfort you in the beginning but they will somehow start to avoid you/keep quiet (chances are they get annoyed)
2) When you talk to them about their problems, they will just read it and not say anything about it and they start talking behind your back on your relationship
3) When you need them at your lowest, they avoid you by giving excuses
4) They will only hangout with you when they need company
5) Other time, they will just let you be alone despite knowing you are going through hardship
These are the few things that I had been analyzing throughout the time when I was having a hard time.
This make me realized who are truly my friends and who are just a friend ( the one that only need you when they want to).
True friends are hard to come. Treasure them, love them and do whatever you can to remain this hard found friendship
With love, Yvonne
