True friends vs "Friends"

Have you ever wonder who are your true friends? It is actually very easy. When you are going through a hard time or having heap load of  problems, that is the best time for you to know who are your true friends.

I have been having a lot of problems recently and I had finally figure out what true friends and a 'friends' do to you to help you.

Take a minute to read and think back of who are your true friends and 'friends'

True friends
1) They stand by whenever you need help
2) They take the time and effort to comfort you
3) They will try to spend their time with you by going out with you
4) They listen to your problems and never once get annoyed at your problems
5) No matter how many times you complain to them, they never fail to talk you out of it
6) They try to do whatever they can to make you feel better

'Friends'
1) They will comfort you in the beginning but they will somehow start to avoid you/keep quiet (chances are they get annoyed)
2) When you talk to them about their problems, they will just read it and not say anything about it and they start talking behind your back on your relationship
3) When you need them at your lowest, they avoid you by giving excuses
4) They will only hangout with you when they need company
5) Other time, they will just let you be alone despite knowing you are going through hardship

These are the few things that I had been analyzing throughout the time when I was having a hard time.

This make me realized who are truly my friends and who are just a friend ( the one that only need you when they want to).

True friends are hard to come. Treasure them, love them and do whatever you can to remain this hard found friendship

With love, Yvonne

Life is like a learning experience

It's been three months since I broke up. These three months has been dreadful for me with all sorts of mix emotions that leads to endless tears day and night. However, these three months gave me the opportunity to think hard on what actually happened to us and what was the cause of the break up. Yes, I would say it was partially my fault. Truth to be told, I didn't understand him well enough. Well, I guess that was the mistake that we made for not understanding each other well enough before committing into relationship.

Endless support and encouragement from friends had finally lifted me up. I realized that crying our spilt milk doesn't solve anything. It is just a waste of energy and tears and what's worst is he will not come back to you or even bother comforting you.

All this had made me realized that, there are still many guys in this world, why should I cry over one break up or someone who will not appreciate you anymore. This failed relationship had somehow make me a stronger and wiser person than who I was. There are no more crying over him or begging him to be back in my life. Yes, I still miss those memories that we had and it is still lingering in my mind once in a while but it does not affect me anymore.

At least for now, it is all smiles and no tears from me anymore.

I would like to thank Mr.A for making me a wiser and stronger person. Memories we had will forever be remembered.

But the most important person to thank are my FRIENDS. Thanks for lifting me up when I m down and supporting me when I feel like a useless, unwanted kid. Thank you so much.

Never give up on life once you fail in a relationship. It may take time to forget a person but one day for sure you will be waking up, smiling.

                                                                            Just sharing my real life story (Yvonne )